tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8553107808744980875.post4220980874739700108..comments2011-12-06T21:17:51.249-08:00Renee Gannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12868834978136618763noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8553107808744980875.post-24968465770555838792011-12-06T21:17:51.249-08:002011-12-06T21:17:51.249-08:00My girl friend and I started dating senior year of high school, we are continuing long distance though college. It&#39;s been almost a year now. I have those same exact feelings.Oaknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8553107808744980875.post-30345818918122335692009-09-06T23:39:27.481-07:002009-09-06T23:39:27.481-07:00Have I been living a lie? NO!<br />nothing can take away the time you had together...unless you let it. reflect in the joy, in intimacy, the everyday pleasures that made you what you were, WHILE you were. you will always &#39;be&#39;, just in a different form. <br />i&#39;ve been in a ldr for 2 1/2 years and we&#39;ve never met. talk about HARD! but we&#39;ve learned things about each other that couple who know each other from the start, can never experience. they both have their positives and negatives... but look what joy you had while you were there! it seems to have made the trip worth it!<br />i know it hurts. but you also know YOUR heart. if you didn&#39;t lie to yourself, then you didn&#39;t live a lie. we aren&#39;t responsible for other&#39;s actions or emotions, only our own. so cling to what is and was in YOUR heart, know YOUR truth, and cherish what you will forever have. <br />you never know.. she may come back. but if she doesn&#39;t, aren&#39;t you the better person for having &#39;loved and lost&#39;? i think so.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8553107808744980875.post-81306931999622078762009-08-06T19:36:53.883-07:002009-08-06T19:36:53.883-07:00My happy ending... We met back in 2002 in Melbourne Australia. Being International students we were only able to stay till our student visas expired. From high school, to college and Uni, almost 7 years together. Then it was time I leave the country, she stayed to gain Permanent Resident status as her course allowed her to. I couldn&#39;t. Leaving everthing behind late last ear, she promised that we will be together again as soon as her PR application got thru. <br /><br />Almost 10 months since I left her, now she&#39;s found a man. Everything I dreamed of crashed down like doomsday. Everyday I still cry. I still hurt. Was the past 7 year just a lie? Have I been living a lie?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8553107808744980875.post-48332300175614104802009-01-15T13:30:00.000-08:002009-01-15T13:30:00.000-08:00My fiance is in the navy and she signed her papers three days before we met. I decided to be with her knowing she would be leaving and not knowing where she may end up! We have stayed together through bootcamp, and now school. Her orders are now sending her to Italy for two years! This is going to be the hardest test on our relationship. We have found that phone calls and letters keep us strong. I see her whenever she gets leave. We even fall asleep on the phone most nights... Thank goodness for free nights and weekends! But we are so in love the ldr is nothing. The love we have is stronger. She is so worth it. She is serving the country and I just want her to come home safely!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8553107808744980875.post-49665048984348213522008-12-22T01:34:00.000-08:002008-12-22T01:34:00.000-08:00i know how you feel. my girlfriend and i met 2 years ago when i was just 16 years old, she was 19 then and stationed on the army base i lived on because my stepfather was in the millitary. we talked for aboiut 5 minutes and i never saw her again. we met almost 2 years later on myspace. she was in iraq. the first time she called my phone and the moment we hung up. i knew i wanted to tell her i loved her. she flew me out to visit her and her family in san diego california when she was on vacation from iraq. and ever since we have been together. we have been together for almost a year in february. we have spent only 16 days out of the whole 10 months together. but i love her and she is worth it to me. long distance can be tough, but when you really love someone. its never impossible.<BR/>amandaaaaa<BR/>myspace.com/imma_mexican2Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8553107808744980875.post-70442210445881338032008-10-10T22:33:00.000-07:002008-10-10T22:33:00.000-07:00i am zu from malaysia, and in an ldr since 2006. i am an engineer working in kuala lumpur and my gf is in kuching (a town in sarawak where she is working as a doctor) so in between us is the south china sea. i guess i too do indulge in multiple phone calls, sms-es, emails, letters, and we make it a point to meet each other monthly. friends have looked down on my relationship saying we are not committed enough but i wouldnt want her to move here unless she's truly ready. and like what sylvia and nulaane have mentioned, she's worth it. <BR/><BR/>it's not so bad :)paminahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14627041465085637755noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8553107808744980875.post-88925164703742220942008-10-09T22:37:00.000-07:002008-10-09T22:37:00.000-07:00I am in a LDR with Honey. She and I have been maintaining one for over a year now. When I can I am going to move to CA to be with her. Our cell phone's are our link. Texting, long calls, mail, and emails. The longest time that we have to be seperated is coming up. We try to see each other every few months, this time we are going to have to wait from now until March or April. <BR/><BR/>And yes, she is worth it.Nulaannehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14287474178175200288noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8553107808744980875.post-51220588560199170242008-10-09T14:21:00.000-07:002008-10-09T14:21:00.000-07:00I give you a lot of respect for enduring a long distance relationship... I really don't think I have it in meRenee Gannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12868834978136618763noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8553107808744980875.post-20350960560361453242008-10-09T14:09:00.000-07:002008-10-09T14:09:00.000-07:00wow...beautiful.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com