Comments on Lesbiatopia: Long Distance Relationships: My New Illness

In july 2007, I met the love of my life. We played...

2008-10-19T11:16:03.268-07:00

In july 2007, I met the love of my life. We played high school softball together. We didnt become close until October 2007, but I could never keep my eyes off of her. We started dating Sometime in December 2007. At the time I was a Junior and she was a Senior in high school. I knew she would be going off to college the following august, but i didnt care, besides we were both in high school, and relationships dont always last that long anyway. I was just going to have fun while I could. So I decided, I'd worry about it once it got here if we made it that far.
Needless to say, she left this past august. Even though she is only two hours away, it's hard to find time for us to see each other.
I never thought that we would make it this far, but we did, and it's worth it. I can relate to the song you wrote so much, since she has four day weekends, she comes here more often, and my room is full of stuffed animals and jewelry she gave me, and little things that she often leaves here. My bathroom door, closet door, and room door are all filled with letters and pictures.
i will graduate May 09'. Luckily, our plans work together. I will be moving to Atlanta, GA for college at Kennesaw, one day becoming a psychiatrist. She will be transferring to GA tech in Atlanta to get her degree in engineering.

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--Kris

i've been in a "ldr" for 4 years. She is the love ...

2008-10-09T19:29:28.745-07:00

i've been in a "ldr" for 4 years. She is the love of my life and no woman has ever made me feel like she does. hang in there. the one thing i can tell you about "ldr's" is that there is a bond like no other between you and yours.

Glad to know we're not alone out there!!!!

2008-10-09T14:08:24.219-07:00

Glad to know we're not alone out there!!!!

LDR's can end in happiness. If there is any doubt ...

2008-10-09T09:25:13.939-07:00

LDR's can end in happiness. If there is any doubt that I didn't make the right decision to move to Atlanta, please refer to Shannon's post. She is the smartest, hottest, sweetest, sexiest, GF ever!

I am blessed
~Sweet Melissa

You guys are totally going to make it because you ...

2008-10-09T08:30:48.864-07:00

You guys are totally going to make it because you both rock my world and I can smell love from a mile away. I wish you both the most happiness in the world... you deserve it!

I, too, suffered from LDR from the day I met Melis...

2008-10-09T07:20:28.614-07:00

I, too, suffered from LDR from the day I met Melissa on Jan. 4 of this year until July 5th when she moved here to Atlanta from Michigan where she was born and lived for 39 years in the same city.

Those months of being apart and trying to see each other for a few days every few weeks under extremely difficult circumstances just forced us to build our relationship the old fashioned way: communication. We had to write, chat and call to get our fix of each other and it was never enough.

The fact that I now share a bed as well as a life with her is nothing short of a miracle. My love for her is twice as intense as it was when we were pining for each other from afar and I feel like the most blessed woman on earth to have her in my life. She is truly amazing. I miss her even now as I write this while she's at work. It's sickening!

I wish the two of you nothing but the best. You are building a strong foundation for the happy years that I hope you will be able to enjoy together as soon as it's possible. xoxo

OMG what a gorgeous couple...Sooooooooooooooooo sa...

2008-10-09T07:06:49.721-07:00

OMG what a gorgeous couple...

Sooooooooooooooooo sadly about the distance -- but it sounds like it's totally worth the wait. :D

Bestest of luck to you guys!!

Can't wait to read part II