Lesbian Sex: Is Fisting For You?

An Article by Special Guest Writer Dirtygrrl...

With each new relationship come new experiences.

So when I suggested that we try something completely different my new girlfriend was ready & willing....

It all started with a conversation my best friend Trailer & I had about 5 years ago. We were talking about our usual subject: sex. We somehow got on the subject of :fisting



Now Trailer has been with the same woman, her wife, for about 20 years now, so I asked her if she had fisted before.

She said that she had and explained that it could be quite pleasurable if done carefully. I couldn't believe it could be done without severe pain, after all, I had given birth twice and am well aware of the pain that comes with the stretching of your vagina.

This was not very appealing to me at that time in my life. The very thought of trying it made me cringe.

Fast forward ahead 5 years.

I am now in a young relationship with a hot ass, incredibly sexy woman who is willing to try anything I lay on the table. I find my girlfriend to be one of the hottest chicks on the planet. She takes me to a whole new level when it comes to sex and love, making me feel incredible with the way we move together. It's like one of those perfect fits that you only read about in romance novels. She makes me so hot that I just want to try anything new I can with her.

I decided to revisit the fisting thing with Trailer. I asked her how someone would go about trying such a thing.

She explained that you should start with clean hands and well-trimmed fingernails. Generously lube your hand up past the wrist. Then try inserting a few fingers into the vagina to loosen it up a little bit. You then slowly insert your hand in with the thumb facing up. Slowly and carefully, work the hand in and when it gets up far enough, it will naturally curl into a fist. She said, "If the insertion of the entire hand is not feasible or comfy, you can always just use the four fingers and about half of the palm. That way, you can have the thumb on the outside working the clit, which ahem, from personal experience, is not altogether unpleasant! Then after a period of time, the thumb is usually more than welcome, in which case remove all bracelets, thumb rings and wristwatches."

I posed the question to my girl one night about trying fisting. She was more than willing to give it a try. The next time we are able to get together, we had a bottle of lube and a porno movie. My girl decided that it would be a great time to pound me. She lubed up her hand & started to rub her hand up & down my entire pussy from top to bottom. This in itself was an incredibly pleasurable experience.

After working me to the edge of an orgasm in a lather of cum and lube, she inserted her fingers. I can tell you that the feel of her fingers going inside me made me feel like I could die at any moment just from my heart racing in my chest. She then continued to work her palm and fingers inside me. I forgot to tell her about stretching out the hole a bit. I was so horny at that point, I could have cared less. All I could seem to mutter was to have the thumb towards the top, not facing down.

I remembered the words of Trailer echoing in my head. "Go slow with the thumb knuckle, it's a bitch". This was quickly wiped from my mind as my girl worked her way in with an excruciatingly slow thrusting motion. I told her to stop because it hurt. I mean it really hurt. She froze in place and calmly waited for me to tell her to start again. When I finally gave her the green light, I decided I would take it all in no matter how painful it would be.

She pushed her hand in and I felt the pain of what I could only describe as my pussy ripping to shreds. I gave a quick jerk and winced. She whispered to me, "It's in, Baby. It's in." God, that was so sexy. After a moment of attempting to relax, she proceed to try to open and close the fist. This was a bit painful to me so I asked her to stop. Then she tried turning her wrist around as far as she could and then back the other way. She kept trying new ways of moving her hand. She would ask me what hurt and what felt good.

I really liked the turning of the wrist. I found this to be extremely arousing and I quickly came (which is a rarity for me). When she pulled her hand out slowly, it felt so good that I came again. When it was over, I remember the feel of her hot, wet hand on my thigh. It was fantastic and I knew I would be doing this with her again.

The next day, my vagina was really sore but I wanted to feel her fist inside me again so badly that I was up for another round. By the time she was finished rubbing my vagina with her lubed up hand, I was practically begging her to fuck me. She proceeded to fist me again. This time, it was slightly more painful so I decided that I needed a little help from my vibrator. I came with an amazing concession of contractions that left me feeling as if I'd done a thousand crunches. Another painful yet pleasurable experience.

I have to say that she was so sweet and kept asking me if it hurt. I told her it did hurt but in a good way. She told me that it was hard to tell if I was hurting or enjoying the experience. She asked me to just say stop if it was hurting me. I couldn't really spit out much more than that since she was driving me insane but I agreed to communicate the best I could. I think it's important that when you try this, you really communicate with your partner.

The third time my baby fisted me, I decided that the best part of the experience was when she pulled out of me. I asked her to slowly move her fist in and out of my vagina. This repetition nearly drove me over the edge - I found such great pleasure in it. It just seems to keep getting better which each fisting.

I want to be sure to tell you that the key to fisting is to go slow. You can injure your lover if you pull out too fast.

Some books will tell you that it's okay to punch your fist in & out. This is only for the experienced fister, of course. And remember, just because I found this to be one of the most erotic experiences of my life, but that doesn't mean that fisting is for everyone. Many women are initially too tight but could take some time to work up to the fist. Some may never get past one finger. There's nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed about if this isn't your thing. Be careful and enjoy the moment. Here's to hoping you, too, can find an open minded girl like mine who is willing to try fun new things.

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